Having your own private gloryhole is yet one more way we isolate ourselves from the bigger world.
Of course that bigger world beats us up, charges us with a crime for having sex, and other bad things.
But now I have entered a new phase: the dick shows up and sticks through the glory. At night I'm available if an outside light is on at the entrance where the gloryhole is located. You don't have to deal with the games cruisers play.
We all know them -- maybe we have played them ourselves.
You don't have to deal with fellow cruisers who fight over that one morsel of trade that walks into the bookstore arcade.
No need to have to speculate if someone is available because they wouldn't be sticking their dick through your glory otherwise.4.
Many apartments don't allow this type of security and I would not recommend doing this unless the setup of your place can be secured.
Marketing Once you have your hole, how do you spread the word? If you are good at what you do word will spread and men will come over.
But there is a great deal to be said about the stimulation from cruising a park or arcade.
It is more than just the dick through the hole that gets your juices going.
You can do this by putting your ass against the plywood and then positioning your own cock while standing (go for shorter, since tall guys can adjust easier than short guys can).
The hole should be sized obviously larger than your cock, but too small to get your balls through as well.
Mention your gloryhole when you chat up someone on GRINDR or SCRUFF.